I really am a rather stupid girl. no, really. or no, not in the way you're thinking. and no, I wouldn't recommend agreeing with me on this point in any event. but -- and perhaps I've said this before -- I'm quite convinced that my life would be perfect if I was in no way involved in it. not that I would ever let anyone wrest the control away from me without a vicious, limb-gnawing battle, but still.